I always heard “love is blind”. Turns out for so many years, in my case it was deaf and dumb too! When you think you are in love and are having bad days in it, your heart can play tricks on the mind. The key is being able to recognize when your being tricked. Chances are if your thoughts are being consumed with the situation and not on you, probably a good sign to focus back onto you or in helping someone else. That will always bring joy back to your moments. Thank God I found the cure.